1. Love Yourself First

Be yourself. And love who you are. It doesn’t matter if you’re not the “perfect weight” or “have the perfect look”. Take good care of your body, mind and spirit and be confident in what you have to offer. Men are attracted to confident women who love themselves.  When a woman tries to discover her value in what a man thinks of her, it can come across as a lack of self-confidence. This can be a real turnoff.  Men are attracted to women who can stand on their own two feet regardless of whether a man is present or not. This will send them a message that you can do just as well with or without them which will trigger them to desire and love you even more.

2. Don’t “Give It Up” Too Soon…

This is especially true in the boudoir department. No man wants a long-term relationship with a woman with loose morals. Allow him to chase you a bit. Be a little mysterious. Men are intrinsic hunters and like the chase. If you make yourself too accessible to him, he will not value your presence or what you have to offer. Have your own life.  Get busy building your own dreams so he has to work at getting your time and attention, not the other way round. Don’t force his feelings. Always leave him wanting more.  Definitely don’t “give it up” too soon. You’ll find that in the process of chasing you while you are doing your own thing, he will end up falling in love with you.

3. Don’t Be Too Possessive…

before he commits to you. Nothing’s more of a turn off than a lady who can’t keep her cool. Never find yourself in a situation where you are fighting over a man. You’ll never win. In the end you’ll lose your self-respect, and his respect for you. Men will respect and want you more if you’re willing to let them go and let them find you

4. Be Patient

It’s takes men a little longer sometimes to decide what they want. Don’t wait forever but don’t force him to make decisions before he is ready. Be yourself, give him space and let him find you. If he is truly the one for you, he will see your strengths and meet you where you are.  If you find that you are working too hard to get his attention, this is a telltale sign he is not the one for you. Love should not be forced and should happen naturally. No one wants to feel like they are constantly seeking attention from someone.  Be your confident, true, loving self. If he’s meant for you, nothing will stop him from falling for you.

5. M is for Masculinity

A man wants a woman who just “gets” him. He wants her radiance and femininity to draw him in the way his masculine energy attracts her. He wants a woman who appreciates his ability to protect, provide and solve problems. He wants her to admire him for his steadiness and sense of calm under pressure. He doesn’t want to feel emasculated because he’s way more logical and analytical and doesn’t (necessarily) cry at sappy movies.

6. G is for Grateful

A man has two primary gifts he can offer a woman: his ability to protect and provide. So if he is willing to risk his life to protect yours and invest his time, talent and treasure in order provide for you, all he really wants is a little gratitude in return.

He simply wants you to appreciate that he works hard to take care of you even if he can’t give you everything he’d like. That’s really not a lot to ask. So if you want a guy to see the very best in you and fall hopelessly in love, the one thing you can’t do is take him for granted or disrespect his efforts.