An healthy and successful relationships or marriage is key in a human being's life. However, despite its importance in the society,it is not legal for underage members of the society. It is only allowed among mature members of the society. Men tend to gain interest and feelings for members of the opposite gender hence the need to find a companion and a helper to spend the rest of their lives with.

This drives them into engaging in relationships, with particular ladies they fall in love with, with the hope that they will get to marry them. However,the couple's stay together is coupled with several ups and downs. It is at this time that both the husband and wife get to know the true colors of the other. Cases of unfaithfulness,lack of trust,lack of respect among other milestones set in.

As a lady, the moment you realize any of the following things in your man, just leave him and run away from him immediately.

1. When you realize that despite having married, he still dates so many other women out there carelessly. By doing this he is putting your life and that of your kids in danger.

2. When you realize that he is always trying his best to run away from the family responsibilities as the man of the family.

3. For some, they will now start disrespecting you and even swearing to send you back to your parents one day.

4. Sometimes, when you notice that he is always wasting more money on drinking and entertainment but doing nothing to build his life.

5. When you also realize that he is always avoiding communications with family members by going direct to sleep when he comes back home.